"How Do You Resolve a Conflict"
A conflict is resolved when it can't happen again or when you can laugh about it.
These heuristics come from the teachings of the late Helmut Pilhar* who drove around Europe lecturing on Dr. Hamer’s work for many years.
It really helps to simplify what is necessary for a biological conflict to resolve.
🔸What will it take for you to not experience this conflict in this way ever again?
🔸What will it take to you to no longer see this as a threat?
🔸What will it take for you to not give an F about it anymore?
🔸What would have to be true for you to laugh about this?
🔸What will cause ‘the stone to fall from your soul’?
Some examples of conflict resolution include…
🏡 Moving out of your parents house, starting a new phase of life- getting a job, marriage 👰♀️, pregnancy🤰, menopause, finally speaking your mind 🦷, setting a boundary 🚧, establishing a territory 🗺️, realizing there is no danger, boost in self esteem 💪, returning home, reuniting 👫, finally leaving, getting free.
Your resolution is unique to you, to your specific situation, to exactly how your psyche experienced the unexpected, acute, dramatic, isolating shock.
Most conflicts are resolved 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗹𝘆 and 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗹𝘆.
Knowing how your body is biologically programmed to adapt helps you get in tune with your 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗰𝘁𝘀 and awareness helps you get in tune with your 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.
Looking at conflicts as an opportunity for growth and personal evolution will help you get out of victim mode and into creative solution mode.
*Helmut’s whole library of online educational tutorials have been translated to English - highly recommended for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of GHk. (Courses can be purchased individually or in a bundle that includes a telegram study group, quizzes, and twice monthly Q&A webinars)
There are many layers of nuance to the full picture of GHk (like when 𝗻𝗼𝘁 to resolve a conflict).
Blog posts are breadcrumbs, but they cannot provide the full depth needed to really grok this.
As Helmut says, you should make studying this work your hobby and do it while you are well.
**For a limited time if you enroll in the GHK-Academy 60 Seminar Bundle you can also join my weekly Language of Adaptation class and I will waive the $333 set up fee! Send an email to [email protected] with a screenshot of your enrollment receipt for the coupon code.
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